Muharram ka mahina hurmat wale mahino mai se hai, is mahine mai zulm o ziyadati karna khaas tor se mana kiya gaya hai. (فَلَا تَظْلِمُوا فِيهِنَّ أَنْفُسَكُمْ).
Kisi ki maut per matam karna, rukhsar peetna, kapde phaadna, cheeq o pukar karna apne aap per zulm hai aur aisa karne wala gunah e kabira ka murtakib hai kyun ke hadees mai aise karne wale ko "wo hum mai se nahi hai" kaha gaya hai....
Abdullah bin masood (Raziyallahu anhu) se riwayat hai ki Rasulullah ﷺ ne farmaya jo shaksh apne rukhsar peete, girebaan phade (kapde phaade) aur jahiliyat ke zamane ki tarah baatain kare "wo hum mai se nahi" hai. (Sahih Bukhari, Vol 2, 1297)
Aam wafat per matam karna jayaz nahi to Hussain (raziyallahu anhu) ki shahadat ka matam karna kaise jayaz ho sakta hai? Kisi ki bhi wafat per bas teen din gham manane ki ijazat hai aur sirf bewa aurat ko chaar mahine das din gham manane (iddat guzarne) ki ijazat hai. Kisi ko bhi har saal gham manane ki ijazat nahi to har saal matam karne ki ijazat kyun kar hosakti hai?
Har nafs ko maut ka maza chakna hai (كُلُّ نَفْسٍ ذَآئِقَةُ الْمَوْت), Allah ki taqdeer per razi rehna chahiye. Matam karne se Allah ki taqdeer se narazgi zahir hoti hai lihaza matam manane se baaz rehna chahiye aur jahan matam manaya jata ho wahan jana bhi nahi chahiye warna hamara shumar unhi mai se kiya jayega (إِنَّكُمْ إِذًا مِّثْلُهُمْ).
Aur is tarah ki burai ko rok nahi sakte to kam se kam dil se burai ko bura janna chahiye ye kam se kam imaan hai... Abu Saeed khudri (Raziyallahu anhu) se riwayat hai ki Rasulullah ﷺ ne farmaya: Tum mai se jo shakhs koi buri baat dekhe aur usko apne haath se rokde to wo shakhs (zimmedari se) bari hogaya, Agar us mai itni taqat na ho aur wo zuban se roke to wo bari hogaya, aur agar itni bhi taqat no ho to wo dil se bura samjhe to wo bari hogaya, ye imaan ka sab se kam darja hai. (Hadees Nasai 1310).
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By- Shaik Ahmad
