MAA AISHA (RZ) KI MARRIAGE KE WAQT AGE KYA THI ?

Jab Muhammad ﷺ ke pass first revelation aaya ush waqt Muhammad ﷺ  ki Age 40 saal thi 610CE main

1 A.H. = 622CE.
First revelation = 610CE.

Age of Ayesha (rz)

First revelation se pehley Abu bakr Rz do shaadi kar chukke they pehli biwi ka name Fatila jinki beti thi Asma Rz dusari biwi ka name Ruman jinki beti thi Aisha Rz  dono ka janam first revelation se pehle ho chuka tha

Reference : Tabari, Tarikh al-Tabari: Chap. Year 13, Section ‘Mention of the Names of the Wives of Abu Bakr al-Siddeeq’. Publ. Dar al-Ma`arif, Egypt (1962), vol. 3, pg. 425-6


Asma ki death 73 A.H. main huee tab Asma rz ki  Age 100 Se upar thi  Asma rz Maa Aisha rz ki badi behan thin aur Maa Aisha rz se 10 Saal badi thin 1 A.H. ki shuruaat main jahan Asma rz ki Age (100-73=27) 27 Saal thi Maa Aisha rzi Ki Age unse 10 Saal kam yani 17 saal thi
Aisha rz Ki shaadi Muhammad ﷺ se 2 A.H. main  hue thi yani Aisha rz Ki Age (17+2=19) shaadi ke waqt 19 Saal se zyada thi

Reference (1) : Nawawi, Tahdheeb al-Asmaa wal-Lughaat: under ‘Asmaa Bint Abi Bakr al-Siddeeq’, Publ. Dar al-kutub al-`ilmiyyah, Lebanon, vol. 2, pg. 328-9

Reference (2) : Mishkat al-Masabih, Edition with Urdu translation published in Lahore, 1986, vol. 3, p. 300–301

Reference (3) : Ibn Kathir, al-Bidyah wal-nihayah: under ‘Year 73’, Publ. Dar al-kutub al-`ilmiyya, Lebanon (1985), vol. 8, pg. 351-2

Aisha rz nay kaha jab mene hosh sambhala mene apne papa ko islam ko follow kartey hue paya koi bhi din aisa naa guzara tha jab RasoolAllah ﷺ humare yahan morning aur evening main na aaye ho  fir jab Musalmano pe bahut jayada zulm hone laga to Abu Bakr rz nay bhi ethopia jane ka iraada kiya

Reference : Bukhari 2297

2297 hadith main Muslim pe zulm ka aur ethopia jane ka likha hua hain aur yeh wakiya 615 CE.  ka hain aur maa Aisha rz ki ruksati 624 CE. main hue  isse yeh pata chalta hain ki maa Aisha rz ki ruksati ke waqt Age 14 saal se jayda thi

Reference: Fadl-ul-Bari, vol. 1, p. 501, footnote 1

Anas bin Malik kehte hain  Uhad ke jung ke mouka par meiney  Aisha Bint abu Bakr aur umm Saluim ko dekha yeh apne izaar samete hue thi aur Tezz chalne ki wajah se pani ke masak chhalkaatey hue leja rahi thi

Reference: Bukhari 2880

Maa aisha rz ki ruksati uhad ki jung se ek saal pehle hue thi  agr ruksati 9 saal ki Age main hue to uhud ke jung ke waqt maa Aisha rz ki Age 10 saal hogi lekeen uhad ki jung main jaise kaam kar rahi hain usse aisa nahi lagta ki Age 10 saal hogi

Reference: Fadl-ul-Bari, vol. 1, p. 651.

Agr hum insab pe dhayan de to humko pata chalta hain ki uhud ki jung 3 A.H. main maa Aisha rz ki  Age 20 saal hogi aur ruksati ke waqt 19 saal hogi
Kyun ki isse pehle jo jung e badr hue thi to kuchh javan log bhi jung ka hissa banna chahte thay lekeen Muhammad ﷺ nay unko mana kar diya aur bapas bejh diya ush zamaney ka riwaaz tha ki koi bhi 15 saal ki Age se pehley kissi bhi jung main saamil na hosakta tha

Ibn Umar Rz kehtey hain uhad ke jung ke time meri Age 14 saal thi isliye unko jung main saamil na hone diya

Reference : bukhari 2664

saru ke sabse pehley jo 19 log islam kabool kiye unme maa Aisha rz ka name bhi hain isse bhi clear pata chalta hain ki ruksati ke waqt maa Aisha ki Age 14 saal se jayda thi

Reference (1) : Nawawi, Kitab Tahdhib al-asmaa wal-lughaat: Chap. Biography of Aisha Mother of the Believers, Publ. Dar al-kutub al-`ilmiyya, Lebanon, vol. 2, pg. 351

Reference (2) : Ibn Hisham, Al-seerah al-nabawiyya, [Chap. ‘Mention of those of the Companions who became Muslim by the invitation of Abu Bakr, may Allah be pleased with him]’, Publ. Dar al-Khayr, Damascus (1999), vol. 1, pg. 604

Maa Aisha rz kehti hain jab surah qamar ki ayat 46 nazeel hue wo waqt mujhe aacchi tarah se yaad hain

Reference : Bukhari 4993

Ish hadith main maa Aisha rz  Jariyah (kishoravastha)   term use karti hain apne liye matlab kam se kam 8 saal to manna hi padegaa
The use of the term ‘girl’ (jariyah) in this hadith (rather than ‘child’ (saby) for example) is significant as ‘jariyah’ in classical Arabic means a young woman around adolescence or older.
See Lisan al-Arab and al-Fayruzabadi, al-Qamus al-muhit

Aur surah qamar 1 A.H.  se 5 saal pehley matlab 617CE. se pehley nazeel hue uswaqt maa Aisha rz ko acchi tarah se yaad tha to iska matlab uswaqt kam se kam 8 saal ki age to hogi aur ruksati 2 A.H. main huee to kam se kam 14 saal hogi

Reference : Ibn Ashur, al-Tahreer wal-tanweer, Publ. Muassas al-tarikh, Lebanon, vol. 27 pg. 161

Kuchh log kehtey hain Maa Aisha Rz gudiya se khelti thi isse pata chalta hain ki wo bacchi thi really challo dekhte hain sach kya hain

Beshak hum india Pak Bangladesh jaise desh main 10-11 saal ki bacchiyon ko gudiya ke shaat khelte dekhty hain iske baad unme kishoravastha lakshan paida hone lagte hain hain unki hobbies badal jati hain aur gudiya se khelne ka shok khatam hojata hain lekeen western countries main aisa nahi hain waha kuchh ladkia even ladke bhi teddy bear rakhtey hain daily mail ka ek article hain jisme 7 celebrity ka name bataya gaya hain aur MAA Aisha Rz to top 6 Ravi main se ek hain 2000 se jayda hadith ki Ravi hain
isliye koi gudiya rakhle to usse hum yeh nahi keh saktey ki wo baccha hain yeh kehna bewakufi hogi ish article main 30 saal se leke 87 saal tak ke Age walo ka name hain to kya hum sabko baccha maan le sabki age 11 saal se kam maan le
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Tabuk ke jung (9 A.H.) ke waqt  maa Aisha Rz ki banayi hue gudiya ko Muhammad ﷺ nay dekha to puccha yeh kya hain maa Aisha Rz jawaab diya meri banaai hue gudiya hain to kya ab yeh gudiya wale bakwas logic se yeh maan liya jaye ki  MAA Aisha Rz ki shaadi paida hone se pehle hi hogai ish logic se ki gudiya sirf bachhey hi rakhtey hain

Reference : Abu Daud 4932

Even Abu huraira rz khud cats ke baccho ko apne aashtinn main chhupa kar rakhtey thay ish logic se unko bhi baccha maan le

Koi bhi muslim ho kissi bhi maslaq se ho muslim sirf Qur'an ko hi 100% word by word authentic book manta hain Qur'an ke aalawa duniya ki koi bhi book word by word 100% authentic nahi manta


itne evidence hain jisse ruksati Age 9 saal saabit nahi hoti hain to sayad shaih bukhari sahih Muslim ki  6-9 wali Hadith  main sunne ya likhne main kuchh chuk huee hain kyun ki hadith ki books bahut baad main likhi gayi laghbagh 200 saal baad to usme yeh chuk huee hain kyun ki :
Jaise baaish ke liye English main 2 word hain twenty two waise hi 16 aur 19 ke liye arabic main 2 word hain
16 ke liye  (ستة عشر)
19 ke liye.  (تسعة عشر)
To mistake yaha hua hain ek itne lambe gap main log yeh 2 word ki jagah single word
6 (ستة) aur 9 (تسعة) use karne lage aur عشر ko add karna by mistake reh gaya ishliye itna confusion hua
Warna baki itne saare evidence to in 2 hadith ke against hi hain

Hum itni saare evidence ka inkaar kar ke yeh maan le ki maa Aisha Rz ki ruksati 9 saal ki Age main hue to bhi isme kuchh galat nahi hain challo dekhte hain kese

Sahih Bukhari main 5 hadith hain aur sahih Muslim main bhi hadith hain jisme 3 alag alag sahaba nay bayan kiya hain aur sabme wahi baat di gai hain ki maa Aisha Rz ki shaadi 6 saal ki Age main hue aur ruksati 9 saal ki Age main hue

Reference : Bukhari 3894 , 3896 , 5133 ,5134 , 5158

Maa Aisha Rz se shaadi karne ka hukum Muhammad ﷺ ko dream ke zariye mila kyun ish shaadi ke pichhey bahut bada wisdom (hikmat) tha

Reference : bukhaari 3895

Muhammad ﷺ ki first marriage Khadijah rz se hue Age 25 se leke Age 50 tak Muhammad ﷺ ki wife sirf Khadijah rz hi rahi shaadi ke waqt Khadijah rz ki Age 40 saal thi
Kuchh log jo Muhammad ﷺ pe galat ilzaam lagate hain aur galat bate kehtey hain unko ispe dhayan dena chahiye ki jis tarah ki gandi bate kahi jati hain agr usme zara bhi hakikat hoti to Muhammad ﷺ jab 25 saal ke they to wo 40 saal ki aurat se shaadi kyun kartey

maa Aisha rz ka nikah Muhammad ﷺ se hua lekeen isse pehle maa Aisha rz ki engagement ho chukki thi zubair bin mutin ke shaat baad main zubair ke ghar walo ko yeh darr tha ki Aisha rz zubair ko bhi muslim bana degi isliye zubair ke ghar walo nay yeh rishta cancel kar diya


maa Aisha rz nay 2200 se jayda hadith bayan ki hain
maa Aisha rz  top 6 Ravi hain
Qur'an ki tafseer fiqh main kai field ke ander ek aisi scholar thi unke pass log knowledge ke liye aate they Allah nay unko chuna early age se wo Muhammad ﷺ ke shaat thi to unhoney itna kuchh sikha

Muhammad ﷺ ki life humare liye best example hain Quran 33.21 ab Muhammad ﷺ ke ghar main jo guzar raha hain wo bhi to humare liye example hain to  Allah nay Muhammad ﷺ ki ek wife ko ish kaam ke liye chuna jo knowledge main expert opinion main ek dum top level pe ho

Maa Aisha rz teachers of teacher thi  kai islamic scholars nay baad ke jamaney main unse knowledge hasil kiya Aur maa Aisha rz nay apna knowledge sikhaya  jiski wajah se islam ka massage insaano tak pahunchney main unka ek bahut bada role tha to yeh bate sirf maa Aisha rz ke shaat khaash thi kyun ki maa Aisha rz ki shaadi bahut khaash thi

Khud Aisha rz ke parents ko bhi koi aitraaz na tha khud Aisha rz nay baadme bhi kabhi ispe aitraaz na kiya ek waqiya aap aisa batado ke kahi pe bhi maa Aisha rz nay yeh kaha ho mere parents nay mere shaat yeh accha na kiya ki meri shaadi kam Age main karwa di aapko Aisa kuchh nahi mileaga balki iska ulta yeh mileaga ki Aisha rz khush thi ish shaadi se aur Muhammad ﷺ ki countinue tareef ki

Maa Aisha rz kehti hain main itna jealous feel kissi bhi Muhammad ﷺ ki wife se naa hua jeetna Khadija rz se hua kyunki iski wajah yeh thi ki Muhammad ﷺ unko bahut jayda yaad kiya kartey they halaki mene unko dekha nahi

Reference : muslim 6280


Kon moumeen ladki hogi jo waqt ke nabi se nikah karna nahi chaheygi Muhammad ﷺ ko to ladkia nikah ke liye propose kiya karti thi

Reference : bukhari 6123

Isi tarah hum yeh bhi jantey hain ki jo Muhammad ﷺ ke dusman they unhone bahut kosis yeh ki ke Muhammad ﷺ pe alag alag tareeke se attack kare Muhammad ﷺ ko badnaam kare Ajeeb shi baat to yeh hogi aur yeh ajeeb hain sochne walo ke liye ke Muhammad ﷺ ke dusmano nay  bahut saare aitraaz kiye kissi nay ispe aitraaz na kiya aisa kyun kyunki yeh waha acceptable tha ush society ka norm tha sirf arab culture main hi nahi puri duniya main tha


Aur agr hum dekhey duniya main jaldi shaadi karna aam baat thi sirf ish century ko chhor ke ladkio ki jaldi shaadi hoti aayi hain history main aapko iska evidence religious main bhi mileaga aapko iska evidence world ke culture main bhi milega isi kai saari research hain roman Empire main yeh Norm hua karta tha 12 saal tak ladkio ki shaadi ho jaya karti thi Source Link


Nikah ki Age islam main Age of maturity  hain
quran main ayat hain Allah kehtey hain yateemo ko parkho ya tak ke wo nikah ki Age tak na pahuch jaye

Reference : Qur'an 4.6


american academy of pediatrics ke according age of adolescent matlab kishoravastha ki age bata te hain ki yeh age 9 se 12 saal hain report Link

Lekeen aaj ke zamaane main bahut bada ikhtalaaf hain aaj shaadi ki Age kamse kam 16 saal 18 saal rakhi jaati hain wahi dusari taraf ek aur chij hain jisko kehtey hain age of consent

Age of consent wo umr hain jisse kam main agr koi ilegal sex kare to ush age se kam main uske pass yeh ikhtiyaar nahi hain ki wo consent de sakta hain matlab ki wo rape main sumaar kiya jayega agr kissi nay consent diya to bhi wo Age main usko consent dene ka option hi nahi hain
Right to give consent nahi hain
Age of consent alag alag country main alag alag hain

Europe ki kitni saari countries hain jisme age of consent 14 saal hain kai kai 13 saal hain Philippines main 12 saal hain
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Age of marriage se kam age of consent hain matlab ki agr kissi ki Age 18 saal se kam hain to wo shaadi nahi kar sakta lekeen illegal sex kar sakta hain 14 saal ki Age hogai to sex kar sakta hain lekeen shaadi nahi kar sakta

To yeh ikhtalaaf hain agr wo keh rahe hain hum marriage nahi kar sakte kyun ki hum bahut chhote hain to illegal sex kese kar sakte hain

Kai countries ki yeh history hain ki age of consent kam hua karti thi hum apne desh India ki hi baat kartey hain kya aapko pata hain india main bhi age of consent 16 saal hua karti thi lekeen dehli ke case ke baad age of consent 18 saal kardi gai

Hum yeh keh rahe hain aakhir main yeh fesla kon karega 12 saal 14 saal 16 saal 18 saal aakhir main sahi Age kya hai ?

To iska answer deti hain Quran
Quran kehti hain Age nahi isme hum dekhenge physical development aur agr maturity nahi hue hain to wo marriage ke kaabil nahi hain lekeen agr maturity hogai hain to fir marriage hosakti hain iske liye 12 14 16 18 nahi dekha jayega balki iske liye physical statement dekha jayega wo hain age of maturity jo jaldi bhi hosakti hain

Hum dekhtey hain yeh chij ka darwaza band karney se kitne chij ka darwaza open hojata hai example America ka hi lelo America main 51% log teenage main hi ilegal sex kar chuke hote hain aur 3laakh se jayda bacchey teenage ladkio ko paida hue bina kissi nukaan ke jo physical damages hain harmful effects hain wo sab dekhne ke baad jayaj tareeka ko hata diya jata hain najayaj tareeka ko apna liya jata hain
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To yaha pe islam nay marriage ko hataya nahi hain apnaya hai kyun ki jab dono ki shaadi hojati hain to ladka jayda zimedaar hojata hain aur family bhi support karti hain aur bahut saare benifits hain Kher yeh alag topic hai.

Ab humare yaha ek problem hain ki marriage hogai to ab education khatam hogai aap dekhoge videsh main yeh aam baat hain ki marriage ke baad bhi education ko continue zari rakhtey hain yeh jo baat hain ki marriage se pehley education hosakti hain marriage ke baad nahi yeh concept galat hain balki islam nay to yeh sikhaya hain ki har muslim pe ilm haasil karna farz hain to islam nay education ke liye roka nahi hai. Humnay roka 

Jo chij Allah ki taraf se aati hain hosakta hain usko koi insaan na samajh paya ho lekeen wo chij galat nahi hogi 

To aap log research kariye internet pe saara material mojood hain 

Har society ke apne norms hain har culture main apne norms hain 

Hum isme interested nahi hain ki kya Age honi chahiye thi kiske liye agr ush society culture main isme kuchh galat nahi tha to hum kon hote hain usko galat kehne waale 

Aaj hum jis society culture main hain isme ladki ki shaadi ki Age kam se kam 18 saal honi chahiye kal ko yeh Age bhad ke 25 saal ya 28 saal hojaye to iska matlab yeh hoga aaj humare culture main jo 18 saal ki ladki se shaadi kar rahe hain wo unke liye  pedophiles honge 

Aaj society kissi ko allow nahi karti ke koi 9 saal ki ladki se shaadi kare hum iska inkaar bhi nahi kar rahe islam bhi force nahi kar raha ke 9 saal ki ladki se shaadi karo 

Lekeen aaj bhi Europe main 13 saal ki ladki shaadi karti  hain 14 saal ki ladki maa hain iske khilaaf koi nahi bolta kyun ki yeh unka culture hain unke culture main isme koi galat nahi hain  aaj bhi yeh hota hain Google pe bahut sare article hain gypsy weddings  per Source Link

Ish topic pe jayza baat karna sahi nahi hoga kyun ki yeh koi Allah ka kalam nahi hain naa hi Muhammad ﷺ ki sunnat hain yeh ek tareekhi baat hain aur ushwaqt arab ke pass koi calendar to tha nahi jisse birthday date note kare jaise hum aaj karte hain ush waqt to sirf koi mashoor waqiya se idea lagte they ki kya age hain khud Muhammad ﷺ ka janam bhi ek mashoor waqiya se yaad rakha jata tha elephant wale waqiya se isliye Muhammad ﷺ ke janam ki date pe aaj bhi ikhtalaaf hain waise hi maa Aisha rz ka janam ki date kissi nay note na ki kyun ki arab main yeh system hi na tha ki birthday date note kare aur fir har saal birthday manaayen aisa nahi tha aur maa Aisha rz ka birthday date note karna bhi koi important nahi tha tabhi humko itne saare ikhtalaaf milte hain kahi ruksati ki Age 9 saal kahi 14 saal se jayda lekeen sahi date kya thi yeh Allah hi behtar jane

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